The Single Mom Life

I am feeling so proud to share the story of a mother who is surviving for her son.

This story is of RUPALI RAUT

She belongs to MUMBAI

Every girl wants a life partner who understands her , who helps her in hard times, who lover her , who hugs her in sadness.

Rupali Raut also wants someone in her life.

At the age of 21 she got married.

With so many dreams in her mind with so many beautiful feeling she started her married life.

But destiny wants something else.

A marriage is the beautiful relationship between two soul.

Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together through the years.

But all are not able to hold that thread.

Same happened with RUPALI RAUT

Her husband was giving her normal love.

He was having affair Even after got married

He tells everyone that he is a Bachelor.

He was having so many relations even after marriage.
RUPALI RAUT believes in

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.

But her husband was Falling in love with different girls.
It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship a lack of trust a lack of understanding that makes unhappy marriages.

She had told her mother about his affairs

But our society or culture always tells a girl to compromise or adjustment.

Rupali compelled to do same .
A girl always respect relationship or do efforts to maintain a relationship.
The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong

Rupali was so strong and she forgive her husband and give him a chance.
Few months passed with happiness or trust.

Ruapli become a blessed Mother of a Son

She was very happy and she thought that he will not cheat her now.

Motherhood is a great honor and privilege, yet it is also synonymous with servanthood. Every day women are called upon to selflessly meet the needs of their families. Whether they are awake at night nursing a baby, spending their time and money on less-than-grateful teenagers, or preparing meals, moms continuously put others before themselves

But a man who don’t respect his partner or his relationship then he can’t live with her.

After some months he started a new relationship or start ignoring his wife Rupali.

And he made her office pregnant even having a little son.

He cheated on her wife .

Rupali was shocked or being cheated by her husband.

She was broken totally and wants to get separate from him.

She filed divorce in court.

And after 1 year of struggle she got separated.

She was broken or hoping for the best for her son.

Stay positive and happy. Work hard and don’t give up hope. Be open to criticism and keep learning. Surround yourself with happy, warm and genuine people.

She was very positive and thinking to give her son a beautiful life and a best life with all facilities and love.
I believe if you keep your faith, you keep your trust, you keep the right attitude, if you’re grateful, you’ll see God open up new doors.

Keeping this in mind she has started her new life with her son.

A single mom has to bear so much for her kids .

Ruapli was facing pain only for her son’s better future.

It’s no longer about

Me, myself and I

You have two

To think about

You feel exhausted

You feel like a failure

You feel like giving up

You feel depressed

You feel weak

But what you feel

Is not who you are

You are amazing

Unconditional lover

You are a hero

Without a costume

You are loved

You are love

You are blessed

You are a strong woman

You can look after

Yourself & your child

Pay the bills & cook a meal

Clean your home & go to work

You no longer the old you

You found your true self

In the process of motherhood

Your child with your last name

Growing spiritually

& mentally

The child in your hand

Is a gift from above

The right man will

Love you and your child As one

Stay where you are

Don’t give up Keep your head up.

Moms are usually the hugger, lover, chef, nurse, ‘boo- boo’ kisser, organizer, planner, detailer, shopper, scheduler, story tale reader, laundromat, groomer, entertainer, feelings holder, fill- up the love tanker, tantrum taker, discipliner, personal coach, chauffeur and everything else in between. We are the Soul that they need to keep steady, the Love they come home to, the Rockbehind their hard days, you are their Fight on days you want to sleep in and cry. But NOW you do all that SOLO.

Some days are hard, some shitty, other days I’m failing. When I can’t seem to keep up – like when I send birthday cards instead of anniversary cards, booking flights to the wrong airport, forgetting a certain school project, forgetting to pay my utilities bill on time, then lying to them that I was traveling for work to get out of late fees, when I eat fried chicken ( yea surprise!) on the crappy days, Chocolate on repeat, Ice cream when everyone’s asleep, when I am selfish to crave the days I could just take a bubble bath, or get to the bathroom without a constant freaking knock or interruption. Times when I do yell so I can be heard and taken care of too, scream in to a pillow when no ones watching, or ugly cry through mascara in my car. When sometimes I feel even a 24 hour day of Meditation isn’t enough. Or how do I pay all of my priorities.

It’s tough doing this Single Mom thing. But, through it so far I’ve learned to Love and Respect me, stand proud of my values and integrity, pat myself on the back for how far I’ve walked and how much connection I have with my beautiful son and people that surround me. Thank God for my parents that hold me and believe in me, my amazing brood of co- workers that also mother the mother in me, my best friends that pump me that ‘I’ve got this’, and my tribe of other Moms that rise up to help and have my back.

Divorce is not an easy situation for anyone involved. The presence of children in the relationship makes things even more difficult. Though it is tragic that it does not happen in every case, some parents understand that the responsibility towards the children needs to have priority above all else. In speaking of the women in these types of situations, they sometimes find themselves with the reality of suddenly being single mothers. At times they will be faced with the lack of financial contribution from the father which forces them to become the sole provider and independent caregiver for their children. It is extremely difficult for newly single parent to raise their children alone. However, with patience and an understanding that the sacrifice they make is for their children, this can be accomplished. My parents divorced when I was young and this caused my mother to suddenly find herself in the father/mother role. Suzie, my mother understood that it would be tough but she felt that divorce was necessary. With the will and determination to give her children the best upbringing possible, she took full responsibility of my three brothers and I and rented her own residence.

A single mother has to deal with so many insecurities and pain. She has to watch her children go without and wonder why her. A single mother has to deal with judgment of others instead of the understanding from others. As if a single mother dreamed of having a family without a father. A single mother forces herself to sleep knowing that her child or children must go without. A single mother has to live with anguish that her best may not be good enough. A single mother must endure the insecurities of the father/s of her child/children does not want anything to do with her anymore and at times the father wants nothing to do with the children they bore together. A single mother must bare the deep pain of her children’s broken spirit. A pain that travels through the body from the bottom of her feet to the end of her longest strand of hair. The pain penetrates deep into her soul. A single mother’s soul is tormented each day as a she has to say no to her children each day to ensure her children’s basics needs are met.

RUPALI RAUT is able to give every kind of love and facilities to her son.

She wants to make her son a successful person or her aim in life she wants to become a successful mother and give her son everything.

RUPALI RAUT is a page model on Instagram.

I want to give salute to RUPALI RAUT and other single mom who are surviving for their kids.

Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success.

Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present

Be happy stay blessed and keep smiling forever.

God bless you all.




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